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AnnyR @fidelis.social's avatar

“Stay as close as you can,” he seemed to say, “Or as far as you need. I will love you from here.”

😭😭😭😭 Sr Danielle, thank you I needed to hear this today.

Sisters of the Little Way's avatar

I'm so glad my experience spoke to yours. Thank you for sharing, Anny.

Rhonda Mawhood Lee's avatar

Thank you, Sister. Like others, I was moved by this: "“Stay as close as you can,” he seemed to say, “Or as far as you need. I will love you from here.”" I will offer these words to parishioners and directees who need them.

Katelyn's avatar

Every post you share is eye-opening for me; I hadn’t understood that spiritual abuse was something so many people had suffered through. Thank you for sharing such a breathtakingly tender encounter with Jesus.

Sr. Danielle Victoria's avatar

Thank you, Katelyn. I’m so grateful that sharing my own experience is helpful for you. I think we will hear more and more stories like what we have shared. Our hope is that these stories will continue to be heard and form the way we listen and respond to the need for renewal in the Church. Thank you for sharing how your own heart has been opening to this reality. It means a lot. It takes courage to listen also.

Rachel R. Thompson's avatar

Beautiful. Tender. Honest. Thank you for sharing.

Jo'el's avatar

Aw man. 😭 Grown man leaky eyes over here.

Sisters of the Little Way's avatar

Now you got me tearing up, Jo'el.

Beth Sikora's avatar

I’ve worked with so very many survivors who have struggled in this way. Thank you for sharing your experience and how you moved through it, Sister. I wish you well and pray for your continued healing. Take good care. 💗🙏🏻

Rita Johnson's avatar

So beautiful! Sr Danielle your reflection and the image. Thank you for sharing in such a vulnerable way.

Angela Sealana's avatar

Thank you for sharing your experience, Sister Danielle. It is very helpful for us who accompany others on the journey.

G.A. Zuniga's avatar

I often have the same difficulty - envisioning an image of Jesus that comforts me.

When I was about thirteen, I had a vivid dream of Jesus extending His hands toward me. Nothing else was visible - only His hands. I instantly placed my hands in His and woke up.

Knowing He’s that close is comforting during life’s toughest moments.

Thank you for sharing Sister. 🙂

Sr. Danielle Victoria's avatar

That is beautiful G. A. Thank you for sharing.

Nora O’Dowd's avatar

Thank you, Sister Danielle!

Sisters of the Little Way's avatar

Thanks for reading, Nora.

Ger Ahrens's avatar

Thank you. As a sexual abuse victim of a Jesuit at age 11, the Sacred Heart Devotion has always been for me both a consolation and a curse because I cannot help but wonder about the suspect relationship between Columbiere SJ and Margaret Mary. I try to think of it with abandonment to the belief that God's love truly does surpass all understanding, even our understanding of love itself.

Elizabeth T's avatar

"Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, and patience" (Colossians 3:12, RSVCE)